Why Wishing Works

What are you wishing for right now?

Do you know what your team is wishing for?

I was walking yesterday through one of my favorite places in Pasadena, Arlington Gardens. I stopped to read some of the minuscule pieces of paper tied to a tree. Each note contained heartfelt hand written wishes from kids to grandparents. 

“I hope I can stay close to my friends”

“I wish that I can find a new job that I love”

“I hope my parents are happy”

…are some of the wishes I read and I wondered how many others wishes are just in their head and never shared?

What if you asked your team to share their wishes with you in your next 1-1 meeting?

Wishful thinking really does work. But you have to give yourself time and space to think about what you really wish for…and then dedicate energy to making it come true. 

My greatest wishful thinking happened when I wished I could start my own business and write a book by the time I was 40. I shared that wish with two close friends while I was still in my corporate career at Microsoft and then asked for their help encouraging me to make it happen. 

As I’m approaching my tenth anniversary in January, my third book Words That Work just won the NYC Big Book Award Distinguished Favorite award in the business category. —so wishful thinking really does work!

Write down your wishes

…Ask for help achieving them

Get curious about others wishes

…Offer support for helping make them happen

Special thanks to Yoko Ono inspired many wishing trees around the world with her art installation in 1996. 

What are you going to wish for next?

Dedicated to growing your business,

Val

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Why Your First And Latest Concerts Are Important To Share

17,500 of us packed The Forum in Los Angeles on Friday night to watch Gorillaz and it certainly felt incredible to be back watching live music again. 

If concert ticket prices in LA are anything to go by, I’m not the only one back at live concerts! My three daughters are now old enough to appreciate live music and so I can’t wait to take them to see Lizzo, Katy Perry, and Harry Styles in the next few months. Meanwhile Mary J Blige and Deadmau5 are all future concerts I’ll be going to with my friends. 

It’s a long time since I went to my first concert, Wet Wet Wet, in England back in the 80’s with my dear friend Victoria Briscoe, yet I still can feel the excitement of standing waiting for them to appear on stage when I hear the first few bars of their hit song “Angel Eyes”

Music connects us, transports us, and allows us to escape. 

Music simultaneously creates and brings back memories. 

Music, if you choose, allows you to sing at the top of your lungs regardless how well you can sing (yes, I’m talking about myself here…)

Music creates an uncontrollable urge to dance (or is that just me?!…)

Music when used at work can have a phenomenal impact on how you connect, tell stories, and bring energy to otherwise flat discussions and meetings. 

It’s time to make the most of the power of music. 

Ready to read more about music?

Remember that Half Time Show?

Want to hear lessons from a jazz club?

How does a musician play with strangers?

Yes, I once went line dancing!

That time when lyrics from a song is all I could share. 

Why not start your Monday talking music?

Dedicated to growing your business,

Val

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Honoring 70 Years Of Service

Can you imagine being in a job for 70 years?

Yesterday billions around the world watched as my home country laid Queen Elizabeth II to rest.

Whether you are a fan of the British Monarchy or not, the dedication and service to her country from the age of 26 to 96 is something to be marveled at.

If ever you wanted to understand the true definition of pomp and circumstance, the last 48hours in Britain gives you a visual explanation like no other. (I recommend going to the bbc.com website and watching the clips of the livestream with British commentary)

The precision of traditions.

The outpouring of love from a nation.

The 10mile queue to file past the Queen's coffin during her four-and-a-half-day lying-in-state at Westminster Hall.

The gathering of world leaders arriving on buses.

The largest global protection operation ever undertaken by the metropolitan police.

There was a lot to marvel at watching from afar.

With all change in leadership, now the question on the minds of many will be:

What will change next?

Dedicated to growing your business,

Val

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